Interfaith Relationships

Interracial relationships are common in this day and age. As much as some people may not chose to date outside of their race, it still shocks me to hear real hatred and disrespect to those who have fallen for a person of a different race. You can't help who you fall for.

What seems to be becoming more popular is interfaith relationships. I know many people in relationships like this and this is seen by some as "taboo". There's the obvious complications of what path your children would follow but personally I don't see why interfaith relationships are such an issue.

A relationship is between two people. Therefore those two people decide how they will live and how their children would be raised. It's not about anyone else. As long as you've both worked out how you'd like your family to run and it works for you, why is it anybody else's business?

The problem is people will always have something to say and people are always worrying about things that don't concern them. I know it's not easy to find a good partner nowadays, male or female, so why are we adding the restrictions of race and religion in to the equation?

I say minus those things, open your heart and mind and let nature take its course. If you find someone who makes you happy, who accepts you for who you are and understands you, go for it. You will be the only two people who matter and at the end of the day, you have to do you and live your life for you.

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