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"You gotta act like...a woman...but think like a man!!"

This song has been in my head for days!!  I love it!!  This seems to be the general rule that we women are abiding by nowadays..."act like a woman but think like a man".  I also like "lady in the street but a freak in the bed" but hey, that's another blog entry all together lol.

However I digress.  I've seen this floating in the twittersvere recently "act like a woman and think like one too".  In a way I kind of agree but I also don't see any reason, why in certain situations, it would do us any harm to think like a man.

I wouldn't say I myself think like a man but I must say, having a close male friend has helped me to think like one in some ways.  Women, we over think every little thing.  The tiniest detail becomes the biggest issue and it need not be, because when you really sit and think about things, I mean really sit and think, you will ask yourself: "but what's the problem?" and that's exactly what your man will say...well he might not but he'd definitely be thinking it!

 If we started thinking like men, we'd be more inclined to just say "aaah F it".  I believe that by changing the way I think about certain things, is one of the reasons my current relationship is working so well and no, I'm not ignoring things to keep my other half happy.  If I have an issue I raise it but I can honestly say I am a lot happier in this relationship then I have ever been in the past.

I also have to say it's down to my life experiences and my age.  I've been through a lot and learned a lot which has contributed to me being able to give my baby the best of me.

I don't think there's anything wrong in thinking like a man ladies but remember....we women have beautiful minds.  Don't lose yourselves but adapt some of the ways you're thinking.  Be clever with it.  You choose when you want to put your man cap on and use it wisely.  Trust me, you will become stronger as a person and ultimately be a lot happier as a result of it.

Anyway, I can't wait to see this movie.  In the meantime, here's the music vid.  Enjoy :) x

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xyD5CwkZLS8

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